Questions to ask your partner before marriage
15 Questions to Ask Your Partner Before Getting Married
1. What are your long-term goals and aspirations? How do you envision our individual goals aligning with our shared life together?
2. What does marriage mean to you? How has your past experiences shaped your views on commitment and partnership?
3. How do you handle conflicts or disagreements? Are you open to seeking professional help if needed?
4. What are your thoughts on starting a family? Do you have any preferences or expectations regarding parenthood?
5. How did your parents handle problems in your household?
6. How do you handle finances and what are your views on financial transparency within a marriage?
7. Are you comfortable discussing intimacy, both physical and emotional? What are your expectations in this area?
8. How do you handle stress and challenging times? Can we rely on each other for support during difficult phases in life?
9. What are your beliefs and values, and how do they align with mine? How will we navigate potential differences in our belief systems?
10. How important is quality time and connection within a marriage? How will we ensure that we prioritize our relationship amid our busy lives?
11. Are there any personal triggers or unresolved traumas we should be aware of, so we can navigate them together in a safe and supportive way?
12. How do you perceive the role of family and friends in our married life? How can we harmoniously integrate both our families and support systems?
13. What are your expectations regarding shared responsibilities in terms of household chores, decision-making, and emotional labor?
14. How do you envision maintaining a healthy work-life balance and preventing burnout within our marriage?
15. Are you really into this? Are you 100% sure you want to get married?
Remember, these questions are not meant to be an exhaustive list but rather a starting point for meaningful conversations. Building open communication and trust is crucial in preparing yourselves for a lifelong commitment.
