Important Notice! Only ask the questions you won’t take offense to the answers you may get.

About just us

• What is one of your favorite memories of us together?

• What is something that I do that annoys you?

• What is something that you want me to stop doing?

• What is something small that I do that you appreciate?

• What is something small that you WISH I would do?

• What do you want our relationship to look like by next year?

• What did you like about your parent’s relationship?

• Were there any RED FLAGS you had when we met?

• What turned you off when we met?

• What turned you on when we met?

• What was your first impression of me?

• What do you think WE can improve upon as a couple?

Before having kids

• Do you want to have kids?

• What is something you hate to see parents do? (Not harmful)

• What was your childhood like?

• What’s a happy memory from your childhood?

• What traditions do you want to bring from your childhood into your kids?

After having kids

• What do you think I can do better as a parent?

• What do you want to take from the way you were raised into our kid’s life?

• As a parent, What do you now understand about your parents?

• What traditions do you want to bring from your childhood into your kids?